In relationships, I don't like half-heartedness. I like friendships intense, deep and meaningful. Not some shallow buddies.
That would usually mean having a small circle. I'm okay with that, the heart is where the connection is.
I recently found a poem that beautifully articulates my long-held worldview.
That would usually mean having a small circle. I'm okay with that, the heart is where the connection is.
I recently found a poem that beautifully articulates my long-held worldview.
Do Not Love Half Lovers
Do not love half lovers.
Do not entertain half friends.
Do not indulge in works of the half talented.
Do not live half a life
and do not die a half death.
If you choose silence, then be silent.
When you speak, do so until you are finished.
Do not silence yourself to say something,
And do not speak to be silent.
If you accept, then express it bluntly
Do not mask it.
If you refuse then be clear about it,
for an ambiguous refusal
is but a weak acceptance.
Do not accept half a solution.
Do not believe half truths.
Do not dream half a dream.
Do not fantasize about half hopes.
Half a drink will not quench your thirst.
Half a meal will not satiate your hunger.
Half the way will get you nowhere.
Half an idea will bear you no results.
Your other half is not the one you love;
It is you in another time yet in the same space.
It is you when you are not.
Half a life is a life you didn't live,
A word you have not said,
A smile you postponed,
A love you have not had,
A friendship you did not know;
To reach and not arrive,
Work and not work,
Attend only to be absent;
What makes you a stranger to them closest to you
and they strangers to you.
The half is a mere moment of inability
but you are able,
for you are not half a being.
You are a whole that exists
to live a life,
not half a life.
- Kahlil Gibran
