trauma
Trauma
Thanks for sharing. I agree with the proverb
phaidenbauer
shared.

When it comes to
trauma
, we
fear
  the ones that will haunt us. But I think the deepest are the ones we aren't aware of. They affect our everyday behavior and are essential ingredients to our
personality
 

I do not think there is a risk free way to confront and conquer trauma. I kind of see trauma like a wedged in arrow. If you remove it there must be a plan to do some type of recovery. Otherwise leaving it in will be better. 

Abraham Kim