Relating this to

Sam Harris

' lovely take on the 'last time', I believe we get so good at making excuses because we always think we'll get a shot. We struggle to believe the 'last time' exists for everything. 

LMAO based on what you've told me you are definitely not a good boyfriend! just kidding, that's a joke, but all jokes are grounded in reality! so let's have a laugh at that.

This post made me think of love differently than how i usually do though. I was always on the boat of preaching for self-love... no matter what. Kind of in the same vein 

Sam Harris

says.

But reading this for the first time I thought about self-love being good but self-neutrality being best. I feel like loving others is noble... but when it comes to ourselves... maybe we should live without judging ourselves. as in neither negative/positive judgement.

Don't focus on the love of yourself. Just focus the love of others. But how do you achieve that? I'm beginning to think by focusing on your path. Usuaully here is where i'd say focus on yourself... like focus on your craft/career... but i'm juxtaposing such to the focus of one's path... of who one's becoming rather than just this romantic self infatuation.