Bigfoot, unicorns, and guarantees

The idea of a guarantee is a myth. 

When you apply for a job, you don’t know that you’ll get it. 

When you start a marketing campaign, you don’t know that it’ll get traction. 

When you ask for a favor, you don’t know know that someone will agree to it. 

But you apply for the job, build the marketing campaign, and ask for the favor anyways. 

Why? 

Because in doing so, you create the best possible chance for the outcome you seek. 

Stop trying to look for guarantees, you will not find them (okay, maybe your local fortune teller will have something to say about that). 

If the work and change you seek to create matters enough, creating the best possible chance for it by trying is worth the effort alone. 




I'm chuckling at the idea that I may or may not have a local fortune teller. I agree with your opinion on guarantees. I do think people should consider probabilistic thinking to assess how likely events occur. There may not be guarantees, but an event that is 80% likely should get more time, attention, and focus than one that is 10% likely.
2021-04-18 13:09:47
This is why I love The Practice and the one guarantee that's within it that we have control over. It's our effort.

Attached to that there's something that's not guaranteed but something we can honestly reflect on. Our enjoyment of the practice. Based on this feedback loop we are able to alter our practice in a way that we can get a better shot at enjoying the practice. Otherwise it won't last.
2021-04-18 16:34:03
Someone  A) has been reading The Practice, and B) needs some book darts.
2021-04-18 19:57:05
therealbrandonwilson
+1 for probalistic thinking; that makes perfect sense to me. 

abrahamKim
that's it. the whole cliché about enjoying the journey... it's a necessity. When the practice becomes the signal for forward motion, your dopamine stands a chance of keeping you going. But if the elusive destination - that point in the very far future - is the only thing you're looking towards, then you're in for burnout. 

Re: reflecting on the practice, I'm still learning to make peace with the fact that some days I feel like what I write is total shit. But I publish it anyways because - par for the idea of practice - I believe that even bad practice days are still good for the practice overall. 
2021-04-20 01:20:20
amen to bad practice days being good overall.

I think if someone is seasoned -- like pros -- then they can definitely take practice days off better than us regular folk.

I think what makes taking days off so dangerous for regular people is that it usually doesn't just stay at one or two days. it usually becomes months and years and often just becomes never.
2021-04-21 01:08:51
abrahamKim
 that's the danger that I fear. I'm already concerned about what it will be like maintaining the practice while on vacation, haha. I may compromise and write some things in advance. 
2021-04-21 21:35:55