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I found out that a lot of personality disorders occur due to events that happen before we reach the age of 3.

That got me thinking that few of us would not have any issues based on that definition. I do not know many couples who seem to do things perfectly especially with their firs child in the first 3 years. It is so hard to get things right for the first anything. Most people in my parents generation had kids when they were still young and had no GOOGLE to research what to do.

Listening to a few seasons of Ester Perel's therapy sessions, almost everyone has baggage from their childhood. No matter the background, religion or country of origin, there is something that we all carry around with us and inject into the current situation we are in.

I just heard that Bill Gates and his soon to be ex wife had some arrangement before getting married. My first thoughts were - what type of childhood did the two have? I can't tell if people with such explicit arrangements have a better understanding of the mind and its limitation or didn't get what they needed before the age of 3.