The only thing that is real is the present. Yesterday and tomorrow are just imaginations. 

We sometimes forget this fact because we think our memory is infalliable.

But even when we do remember something 'accurately' it is still something being remembered rather than experienced.

Some might argue that  memory is an  experience  ...

It has been a few weeks since my grandfather died ( Grandfather Yours Truly & A day off (Death and Webhosting inside) Yours Truly ) in contrast to the death of my other grandfather...