Agreed. Caveat i'd add is we do this most not with romantic relationships but with ourselves. 

the objectification of all others comes from first objectification of ourselves that requires others to support the narrative.

as in if i objectify myself as a gangster i must require fellow gangsters to ride with, which requires objectification of them. I must require being strapped and doing drugs, which is objectification, objectification, objectification and more 

objectification

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