while everyone we admire gets things done because they've commited to a process and have fallen in love with something.

i feel like the regular people who adore such exemplars do themselves harm by pressuring themselves into thinking they need to fall in love with something and commit to some process without actually realizing/seeing what it is they love/seek/want.

it seems that too many people think they want to be:

entrepreneuers.
or designers
or programers
or writers
or artists
or atheletes
or etc etc etc.

what we truly want is deeper and less encapsulatable in such simple and shared terms. until we see that our commitments and "love" will be temporary. 

Once one sees and accepts and then finally understand what they love, having to fall for something and having to commit won't be an issue.

There's a documentary snippet where some comedian asks 

Jerry Seinfeld

about how he did it. What he -- the comedian asking -- ought to do about being afraid of not making it as a comedian and how he should hedge his bets. And jerry just laughed at him.

When i saw that long time ago this was confusing to me. Makes sense now.