Love Breaks Us All

I wouldn't call myself a hard fellow. So, I love love. 

The amazing thing is, even with that awareness, love still finds its way of reaching out to your innermost being.

Yesterday was my birthday and of course, I got lots of calls and messages and all. I wasn't in shortage of love prior to yesterday or better still I wasn't craving it. But somehow some of those messages still got me.

And I'm like, Love really does gets us all. Yeah, I know that could be a bad generalisation but how do you explain something you don't crave or want yet it got to you so much it made you feel.

Or perhaps I wanted it and I didn't know? 

No, I don't think so. The message that really brought a tear from my eye was sent from a male junior friend, so really nothing to it.

But when he listed the times when I had been of huge influence in his life, it was like my 20s just flashed before me and the emotions swelled up.

I think that's just how we are wired really.
But when he listed the times when I had been of huge influence in his life, it was like my 20s just flashed before me and the emotions swelled up.

Moments like these... I think they're as powerful as 
keni
's favorite kind of moments -- 
butterfly moments


I don't have a word for these moments, but I know exactly them. I know them when it strikes me and likewise when something I do strikes in others.

They happen infrequently enough that I somehow always forget to optimize for them. In a day to day... when I'm not reflective enough I may think that such moments are stupid and nonsensical... way not worth their
ROI
... why optimize for something that happens once in a blue moon?!

but then one happens to you. and then you just know. 

Ah if there could be one point to life universally. this is one point.


2021-07-02 16:17:42
Ditto Sir Abe's comments. It's all that matters. 


“The business of life is the acquisition of memories. In the end that's all there is.”


Carson of Downton Abbey.
2021-07-02 18:02:18