butterfly moments
My rules
I believe that although 
butterfly moments
are a wonderful thing they are not something that can be sought (effectively).

If a moment is a butterfly moment it will find us when we are ready. Not when we chase it.
Abraham Kim
Love Breaks Us All
But when he listed the times when I had been of huge influence in his life, it was like my 20s just flashed before me and the emotions swelled up.

Moments like these... I think they're as powerful as 
keni
's favorite kind of moments -- 
butterfly moments


I don't have a word for these moments, but I know exactly them. I know them when it strikes me and likewise when something I do strikes in others.

They happen infrequently enough that I somehow always forget to optimize for them. In a day to day... when I'm not reflective enough I may think that such moments are stupid and nonsensical... way not worth their
ROI
... why optimize for something that happens once in a blue moon?!

but then one happens to you. and then you just know. 

Ah if there could be one point to life universally. this is one point.


Abraham Kim