abrahamKim  ah yes, beloved SMART goals. I am a big fan as a project manager :) 

abrahamKim I'm with there. Re: my point in the writing, I think the problem with saying 'let's do better' is that it's a totally unqualified mission. It's missing the how. Better...

abrahamKim   I decided on hats because I'm a big fan of wearing hats and I wanted a physical reminder to pursue the things that light me up.  I wanted...

  therealbrandonwilson if I had to choose today, I'd choose Adagia. I consider this small crew friends and I like being able to follow the path  abrahamKim is on in...

brianball agreed, it's good that the issue of Asian hate is becoming a central part of the conversation. SF is one of my favorite cities; it's heartbreaking to see the...

abrahamKim a couple of barriers: fear, lack of complete awareness/comprehension of the facts one needs to act. 

Another way to think about it: everything before the moment of activation is the...

abrahamKim I'm a big fan of Baron Fig https://www.baronfig.com/  The confidant notebook.  I would be curious if your gf is familiar with this one.  If not, I highly recommend it...

abrahamKim   Awesome that williamliao sent you The Practice.  That excerpt that you wrote is perfect.  I do have to detach from perfection and just put in the work.  ...

abrahamKim  it's coming! 

abrahamKim agreed on all accounts. On YouTube there are clips of studies done on attentional blindness that illustrate the importance of directing our attention - my favorite is the experiment...